It seems that the beginning of every year brings about a lot of thought processing on what to change or do better in that year. For me this involves the regulars, loose weight, eat better, read scriptures/say prayers more regularly, etc.. This month however presents a new decision. We have recently acquired enough money to move out of my fathers home. This seems to be a no brainer and obviously an easy choice. However, since we only have enough money to either move out or buy necessary items for the baby we have been stuck with the decision of which to pick. The pros of moving out are... less stress since we are no longer sharing a home with a stepmother that doesn't really want us here, our own space, our own rules, and finally independence and a feeling of being able to self sustain. We have also found a house which is in the same school dist and ward so there will be little change in that regard. Also, Aqeel was just recently called to be the Elder's Quorum Pres and we feel that we shouldn't leave the ward after just accepting this calling. Ok, so pros of buying baby stuff are pretty obvious you can't have a baby without a car seat, clothes, and diapers, along with a few other essential items.
So, the decision is which to pick since it seems we cannot afford both. Any suggestions???????
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I'll send you the $100.00 for the car seat. I agree it does seem like a NO BRAINER!!!!! Todd
If you were still in Sabre Springs, you know you would get all the extras that you need. Can't we do a long distance baby shower and have everyone contribute to a group gift? You need to get your own space!
Todd you don't have to do that. I am glad I have a brother like you!
That's a fun idea Kim. A long distance baby shower would be cool!
You must jump on the opportunity for that house, it seems like it is meant to be! What things do you absolutely need? You should check out cragislist because there's usually lots of stuff on there. (remind me, what's the baby,a boy or girl?)
We need a car seat, swing, bassinet, bath tub, breast pump, clothes, diapers, etc... I will check Craig's list, but not many people actually use that here. I don't know the sex of the baby but Aqeel does and you can ask him if you email him @ rasheed.aqeel@yahoo.com
I am all for the long distance baby shower. Depending on when you have your baby, I can pass my stuff right on up! Trust me, we'll be eager to have it go to a new home!
Lisa you can't put a price on piece of mind, baby things will definately come as you need them. Jump on this chance to have your own place and let your brothers and sisters what you need to make this work. Remember this baby has over 20 cousins, I'm sure we can round up anything you need. Happy New Year Trish
Ok, I am going to try to answer an earlier post, then this one. Step mothers are difficult, if you remember Brett has one and dealing with her is IMPOSSIBLE!! It sounds like yours is much easier to deal with, but may have similar traits. My step mother in law (long title), will never say what she wants from us, but then complains to Brett's dad later. It's hard staying there, she can only take us for a few days at a time. I think when children who aren't there own are around it's just difficult. We have learned to deal with her by staying out of her way and following her rules all the time. I am constantly on guard with my with my kids when we are there. It's hard, but worth it because it means a lot to Brett's dad, and they are good grandparents. We just have to do whatever she wants. Which leads me to my next opinion-move out! I think you will be happier and so will they. You can round up baby stuff no problem! I am totally in for the long distance baby shower. You can get a few things you need out of that, then borrow anything else. I am sure there are people around there who don't need their baby stuff anymore. Clothes are easy, we can round some up. Sorry for the long post.
I agree that baby stuff will take care itself & a long distance baby shower sounds great to me! I think that it is important for a family to have their own space - if you can & don't, I think it might be even harder to have stayed. The baby won't know if the stuff's new or not. ;) Good luck in your decision.
It looks like you've been receiving some really great advice. You have to do what is going to make you and your family happy and feel content. Whether you stay with your dad or get your own place, make sure it's a place where you feel loved and supported. I think I have found my new calling: It's time to throw you a baby shower! All of your friends and family have tons of things to share and you will definitely be taken care of. JUST MAKE SURE YOU DON'T LEAVE THE WARD! WE NEED YOU!!!!
You need your own place! Your friends and family will help you get everything else. You know everyone would love to throw you a long distance baby shower!
Wow! I am so thankful and overwhelmed at all of the responses. Thank you so much for all the great advice and support. It is nice to know how loved our family is!!!!
Count me in on the cyber shower. That is a great idea. I think it would be wonderful for you to bring your baby home to your own place. You need peace now more than ever.
That's a tuff one, but from your earlier post I think if you can some how get your own place your all going to be much happier. I think a long distance shower is a great idea. Is anyone giving you a shower out there?
Brandy - my friend Wendie has volunteered to do one here and I was gonna see if she would just combine it with all of my long distance friends. We will keep all of you guys updated.
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